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I am raised by a family who taught me that life is easy if you have decided already who you want to be and what future you want to explore

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I want me to see my future within my decisions everyday. In choosing my career I have decided to follow what I want because this is what make me easily achieve greater things in life. My basic decision in life is that I just wanna enjoy my time as a teenager but with limitations.I want to explore life and enjoy it because It helps me to find my purpose. But making my own decision is so hard for me because there’s a doubt to myself that I can’t do what others do.

https://blog871764749.wordpress.com/2021/01/19/major-life-decision

When students come to see me who are feeling so frustrated with people and situations beyond their control, I ask them to take a deep breath and explain how they are feeling

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I also see myself getting very angry lately. And that is the hardest part for me. I can see and read too much about what other people are doing and I feel frustrated, hurt and honestly jealous sometimes. But then I remind myself that I need to take a deep breath and practice a little more empathy. It’s what I wish those people would do for us so I will choose to do it for them. Does that mean I agree with what some other people are choosing right now? No. But it does mean I will actively try to put myself in their shoes and let go of taking things so personally.

https://thekindschoolcounselor.com/2020/07/19/redirect-and-connect

The importance of Language

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Sid's avatarTamira Paleja

As I quote ‘If you don’t understand my silence … you will never understand my words’

My daughter Tamira has taught me that love has no language, if you want to understand and love a person there is no freakin… language barrier its the willingness to go beyond your thinking and want to understand someone who just can express.

When I am with Tamira I have no time to think anything except for her & sudd the jatapatapata language has started making sense. We exchange words with no meanings and still understand each other. Right from a 10 day old baby I have tried spending most of my time with her by just looking and reciprocating and now she does the same which is totally fun… The magic of understanding each other is beautiful and the fun times are just to precious, from getting up at 2.00 am at night…

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