We’ve shared countless laughs, tears, smiles, giggles, frustrations, and basically every emotion under the sun. If you can think of an emotion, we’ve been through it together. I think our time, mine and yours, would be better spent telling you the things I’ve learned from our 24 years of friendship.
Read the (short, quick + easy) full post post to learn about Katie’s 4 simple lessons — to which she adds at the end:
There are so many other things I have learned from my friendships and relationships, but I want you all to actually read this…not open it, see that it’s 15 pages long, and then hit the X button. Until my next post, I’ll just be living the Dream…
I feel a bit more gratitude today which is something I can lose when I’m not in a great place.
I planned on doing nothing today but a friend text at 9am asking to meet up for a brew. I wasn’t really feeling it but I dragged my sorry ass out of bed and into the bath (always love a good bath!). Threw on some leggings, my “believe in yourself” top and a hoodie, teamed with my Primark £6 converse. Wasn’t really feeling the make up today but wore it anyway as my skin is horrendous. Braided my hair as was I shite messing on with straightening it today. Left the dishes, something I never do as I’m a germ freak but thought fuck it.
Got to George st and wasn’t really feeling being around people so I changed tables five times. And then my friend came.
I mean yeah…
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friendship, Life, Love, time
Stop making yourself so available.
I cannot emphasize this enough. This extends to every person in your life. I get that it can be difficult, especially in dating. When you’re first getting to know someone, you want to spend a lot of your time with them and you end up planning things in your life around their schedule. That is not okay. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to spend time with someone. You as well as the person you’re spending a lot of your time with need to understand that you have separate lives to live that are both on different paths. Even if those paths are crossing each other for a short while or a long one.
The biggest downside about being available all the time is that people start expecting you to jump into action for them every single time. Then when you don’t, you’re made out…
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church, Community, Friendship, serving
Our girls are two of my best teachers. They see the world so differently than I do. They’re young, free, kind, and compassionate. They don’t always know what’s expected in situations, so they’re often unencumbered by social norms and pressures.
Because of these things, our younger daughter, Kristin, talks to strangers. This is not just a once in a while thing. She actually seeks out conversation with people she does not know on a very regular basis.
Now, this probably sounds a little creepy, and at times it does make me nervous. I’m well aware that not everyone is safe, and some people don’t have good intentions. I want her to know the importance of safety and being with a grown up you can trust. But most of the time, she’s talking to strangers when we’re together, when she knows she’s safe, and when she wants to include someone.
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Lifestyle, Relationship Weddings
If you find yourself falling for your best friend and you don’t know what to do, the tips below are just for you.
There are things beyond our control in life – like the family we are born into, or the people we become attracted to and fall in love with.
That’s why, sometimes, our interest drifts to people we could never have, people we should never be falling for in the first instance. But matters of the heart are hardly controllable.
That’s why you find romantic interest growing between step-moms and their step-kids, between people with decades of age difference between them, and sure, people who set out to be just friends.
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boyfriend, commitment, couples, divorce, friend zone, friends, girlfriend, growth, love, lovers, marriage, relationships, single
I have a question… Can you be in a deep relationship with someone and livein separate homes? “I’m asking for a friend“.
Honestly, how can you keep the sparks flying if you are around each other 24/7?
Lets look at the Cons
- you will have to explain your every move
- Having someone energy around you all day will interfere with your own vibrations.
- The more you guys are around each other the less you are excited to see each other.
I may be speaking from a single mind frame, but on the other hand the fact that I am single may be the reason why I am able to think outside of the box. “shrugs shoulders”.